Saturday, May 24, 2025

America America!

 America the Beautiful

O beautiful for spacious skies,
For amber waves of grain,
For purple mountain majesties
Above the fruited plain!
America! America!
God shed His grace on thee
And crown thy good with brotherhood
From sea to shining sea!

The first stanza of the beautiful poem by Katharine Lee Bates.  The melody belongs to Samuel Ward. We have much to be thankful for this Memorial Day Weekend where we celebrate our the tremendous sacrifices of our military.  Thank you all. 

God Bless all who serve. 

With Love,

Coach K

Monday, May 19, 2025

Joseph the Father

 Joseph is the husband of Mary and father of Jesus.  The name Joseph means "God will add" which is fitting because Joseph is added to the lives of Mary and Jesus to guide them on their holy mission where life is made new again for all of us experience. 

And now we our the Blessed Virgin Mary Mother of God and of course we have our Jesus Lord Christ but Joseph the erstwhile servant Dad is left a little in the shadows.  

Like many fathers Joseph is somewhat in the background he is the guide, the escort, the shepherd. 

We fathers and dads today must realize our role to play even if it feels like we are in the background.  Like our heavenly Father, Son, and Holy Spirit we serve and shepherd the family.  We nurture, care, teach, protect, and serve the mother and children a joyous, glorious, life everlasting.  

Fathers be steadfast and follow the path of our heavenly Father and Shepherd who has sent us his beloved Son Jesus the Son of both God and Man to show us the path.  When we stay close and follow his example, teachings, and Word our path is made smooth. 

Let's be strong Fathers for all our families.  

We do all in Christ which strengthen us.  

Amen. 

With Love,

Coach K


sheep shepperd

Gloria Patri - Glory Be to the Father

 

Glory be to the Father 

And to the Son 

And to the Holy Spirit 

As it was in the Beginning 

It is now and ever 

Shall Be 

World without end

Amen


God Bless!


Coach K

Thursday, May 15, 2025

The Children

It all begins with the Family.  Our country and the world is based on the foundation of strong families.  If we look at the great nations throughout history they have this common theme of strong families, communities, country, and world. 

But before all that.  We must begin in the home.  Mothers and Fathers stay together and raise your children.  Keep your relationship strong, their will be ups and downs but stay the course the destination is worth the journey.  For when you are older and look and the beautiful family and children you have helped create, with the Good Lord's blessing of course, you will sit in wonder and be amazed and what you have created. 

The children are a blessing and a gift! And as Jesus reminds us, Suffer the Children which simply means to care, protect, love, and cherish them among all.  

So ask God for help on your loving journey raising the family it is worth the sacrifice.  Our Single Mother Helen Ann Keel raised her four headstrong boys and shaped them into fine men.  Mom relied on the Blessed Mother and her faith in God to help her and us on the journey.  She lifted us up and great personal sacrifice and now we are paying it forward with our families. 

To who much is given, much is expected.  And now we will carry her love forward that she has infused in us to Suffer the Children and lift them up all over the world in Jesus' name we pray. 

Thank you Good Lord for providing a loving Mother that sacrificed her personal well being for that of her Lovebirds. 

All our Love Mom.

Your Loving son Tommy

Wednesday, May 14, 2025

Crazy Helen

Helen better known as Mom was just like any other young woman about to marry the love of her life and live happily ever after. And as the saying goes, God had other plans. Mom is a Fairmount girl from Philadelphia, PA.  The child of Howard Keel and Helen Gallagher she is the 4th child of five in a family of two  sisters  Kitty the oldest and Judy the youngest, and her older brothers Frank and Joe. Dad was the second child of Frank and Loretta Kaufmann and has an older sister Frances and younger brothers Joe and Johnny. 

She came from a working class family with Irish and German roots. She was the Princess of the family and and the favorite of Mom and Dad. She had dark black hair and striking blue eyes a resemblance to a young Elizabeth Taylor.  She spent Summers at the Wildwood beach in NJ and went to the local catholic Hallahan all girls school where she developed her deep faith and love of the Blessed Mother Virgin Mary. 

She fell in love with Tommy, a friend of her brothers who played basketball together in the little gym at the start of Boat House row on Kelly Drive in Fairmount Park. Kelly Drive is one of the most picturesque drives in Philadelphia as the road winds along the Schuykill River through Fairmount Park.  The park is one of the largest urban parks in the country and Kelly Drive is named after Princess Grace Kelly's brother John B. Kelly Jr. who was a champion of the city and an Olympic rower.  

Mom was a beautiful debutante and Tommy was a handsome athlete they fell in love were married in St. Francis' church and had wedding pictures in the park.  Mom wanted the nice house with the white picket fence while Dad just wanted to be one of the guys. The children came quickly in quick succession with Tommy, Frankie, Brian, better known as Irish twins, and the baby Chris to follow four years later.  The couple struggled financially bouncing around from apartments in Roxborough to a rental house in Chesnut Hill. Dad spent some time in the Army before being honorably discharged and landed a job as a package delivery driver for H&M in 1968. 

The family was on the rise as Mom helped Dad secure a VA loan that helped them buy their first house in 1970 on East 5th Ave for $10,000 in Conshohocken. The home was a tidy 3br/1bth twin home with a small yard backing up to an alley that we shared with the neighbors. The blue collar Alan Wood steel working town was home of many churches, bars, and four Catholic school's St. Matthew's, St. Cosmas & Damien, St. Mary's, and St. Gertrude's in West Conshy.  Conshohocken means Pleasant Valley in the native Lenape Indian tongue. The town is located about ten miles outside of Philadelphia and also rests on the Schuykill river. 

Conshohocken was indeed our Pleasant Valley with a town of ten thousand kids, parks, fields, and most of all right up the street The Fellowship House of Conshohocken. The Fel was a community center founded by it's first Director Albert C. Donofrio. The Fel was a place were the town children gathered to play basketball, kickball, volleyball, ping pong, board games, fooseball, and even chess.  The Fel was right up the block and we spent our childhood years with more time at the Fel than at home. 

So as the Kaufmann family prospered including a new Volkswagon Squareback station wagon to go with the new house, things began to deteriorate with Mom and Dad's relationship.  He always wanted to go back to be with his friends in Fairmount while Mom wanted to keep away from the bar scene.  Mom wanted the finer things in life and Dad just wanted the simple life with friends and family in Fairmount. Dad most likely struggled with mental illness which resulted in his Honorable discharge from the Army after only six months.

The young growing family struggled financially as Dad left his job at H&M in 1972 where he had worked for four years and things started to deteriorate quickly.  Dad would spend more time back home in Fairmount and Mom would grow frustrated and angry that she was home with four kids under the age of eight.  Dad left and never returned in 1973 and I distinctly remember being the 9 years old. Frank would be 8, Brian 7, and Chris 3.  That was a seminal moment in all of our lives. We were Fatherless.  How do you leave four boys and your true love within a matter of nine years. Heck Dad has his own basketball team! 

Children can bring great changes to any relationship and when you add in financial struggles, personality clashes, and ultimately one wanted to go in one direction while the other another, the relationship frays and the marriage ultimately ends.  Mom would ultimately make things work but it was a challenge for all of us after Dad left. She is our rock and salvation her unwavering faith and commitment to God and the Blessed Virgin Mother would see her and her children survive the challenge.  Mom became a Princess Warrior and would do anything to educate, feed, and discipline her children to ensure they became upstanding young men.  

But the most important choice she made was to STAY!  

Mom faced the challenges beat back the failure and disappointment. She begged and borrowed to ensure we had an excellent Catholic school education.  She wanted us to be gentlemen and not hooligans she reminded us that we were Lace Curtain Irish not Shanty Irish which is a reference to wanting the best for her boys.  She was determined to keep us on the right track and would scream, yell, and fight us to ensure we stayed on the right path. Like any family we had our ups and downs but we were resilient kids and raising four wiley boys as a single working mother would take an emotional toll on Mom.  

She struggled with her own issues at times like everyone raising children, but she perserved and we all prospered.  We were raised in the Faith and reflecting back on our time with Mom was that her unwavering faith and devotion was essential in helping her raise four loving boys that would go on to raise wonderful families of their own and all be good Fathers. 

Sometimes the easiest thing to do is to walk away and the hardest choice is to stay.  For all you Fathers out there make the right choice and stay it is the best decision you will ever make for when you children are grown you will be humbled with gratitude that with the Good Lord's blessing you raised your children and created your Masterpiece. 

God Bless!

With Love,

Coach K

Thursday, May 1, 2025

The Divine You

 

Who is this God 

that we barely know

Who brings us the rain,

the wind and the snow


He created the world 

And gave us new life

And yet we persist

with the sin and the strife


God gave us the Word

To teach and to guide

Life is a blessing 

taken in stride


The Lord forgives and 

makes things right

With His wisdom He gives us

Power and might


Get to know Him

Our Father above

We are his children

Feel the Love


How can we praise Him

Learn to be still

Try and stay humble

To do His will


The Lord is merciful

Full of grace

Clear out the noise

And give Him some space


Jesus tells us that 

Peace 

is the way

Follow the Word 

And try not to stray


Let us be Thankful

Lifting our voice

We have this day 

Let us Rejoice


We are forgiven

We are part of the 

Trine

Father, Son, Holy Spirit

Of the Blessed Divine


With God all things are possible. 


God Bless!


With Love,


Coach K








Friday, April 25, 2025

Count Your Blessings

Sometimes we often get so caught up in our daily lives that we lose sight of the important things. We have our everyday challenges with the family, children, and job that we ask ourselves is this all there is to life an I just changing diapers, paying bills, putting out fires, and dealing with setbacks and heartache. We all experience these challenges it is part of the human condition and human experience, but we do have resources to help and guide us on our life journey. 

We must begin with our source, God the Father and his Son Jesus, when we understand that we are part of the divine union with God we know that we have a partner that will help us and guide us on our journey. We can use the principles such as the Ten Commandments to help us build a strong foundation for a life well lived. One of the most important resources available to us is the guidance of the Holy Spirit it resides in each of us and is in essence part of our Divine DNA our God force that we can access and use at any time.  We can tap our Holy Spirits to help with everyday decisions, career planning, our health, our love life, whatever we require help is just a prayer or quiet moment of reflect away from getting the information you need. 

Just like in any relationship Communication is the key.  We must have good communication to have a successful strong relationship.  We can ask for guidance, help, support at any time but we must ask and more importantly listen. Try starting every morning with a simple, "Good Morning God thank you for this day".  Jesus tell us how to pray in the Sermon On The Mount by reciting the Our Father, 

Our Father Who Art in Heaven

Hallowed be Thy Name

Give Us this day our daily bread

And forgive us our trespasses (sins)

As we forgive those who trespass against us

Lead us not into temptation 

But deliver us from evil.  Amen

This simple yet powerful and effective prayer keeps our direct line of communication open with God where we ask for His guidance and to bring us peace to overcome any challenge we may face. A simple prayer of gratitude throughout the day of just saying "Thank You God" for this moment this breath this wonderful dance called life. 

When we see life as a gift instead of daily drudgery our attitude and beliefs can shift to focus on the incredible gifts we all have been given and the possibility to achieve wonderful things in our lives. When we simply focus and count are blessings we can accomplish miracles in our lives just as Jesus tells us, 

"You can do all that I have done and more if you but believe"

And

"This is the day the Lord has made let us Rejoice and be Glad!"

God Bless,

With Love,

Coach K